"I have been able to share all of my secrets with Fatih. Fatih’s openness, understanding, and care have always made it easy for me to be fully honest with him: how many partners I’ve had, how long I can last, how hard my erections are, how I feel as a man in this world. This is the gift that Fatih has in his heart that no other man has: he deeply loves me for me, and I am fortunate to be Fatih’s tantra student for over a year now.

So how has Fatih’s unique coaching style, knowledge, and experience benefited my sexuality? Well, first of all, I am now finally proud to be a sexual being, a man proud of his masculinity, and excited to express his manhood to women and the entire universe. Before I met Fatih, I was so clueless about the world of tantra. Body energy awareness, our journey as men throughout this physical reality, orgasm without ejaculation, sperm retention and sublimation, the importance of breath, the masculine/feminine energy balance: I had no idea about any of these concepts.

But now, I am able to move sexual energy around my body, perform breathwork exercises to get rid of stress, and fully relax, I am now able to have very beautiful sexual dreams. During sex, my erections are the strongest they’ve ever been, I can now control my ejaculation, and I’m so proud to say that I’ve begun to experience orgasms around my body without ejaculation. In just a short time, Fatih’s tantric coaching has allowed me to reach new heights of my masculine potential.

Fatih is always there when I need him. After having sexual experiences with my partners, when I want to discuss what happened and how I felt, Fatih is always there to listen. He holds me accountable and ensures that I stay disciplined and progress in my practices, but he does this with care and is very sensitive to my unique personality.

Fatih has also been so excellent at adapting to my unique lifestyle. My company and lifestyle are erratic and hectic- I have to travel all the time, I have many people who work under me and I have been raised in a very strict, religious setting which still haunts me to this day. Fatih takes the time to learn all this and adapts his coaching to fit my unique mindset.

I can say with full certainty that Fatih will be my tantra coach for life. He’s a brother to me. I feel so lucky because I am directly benefiting from the 10+ years of experience he has had with tantra and teaching men to reach their potential (for me the focus has been sexual performance). The many years he spent in Thailand studying Tantra, the hundreds of live men’s circles he has led, the journey he has experienced in his life as a husband, father, and son, the inner war we all face as men in today’s world…

I am the lucky one .. because Fatih’s coaching transfers that experience to me very quickly, so I don’t make the same mistakes Fatih made, so I learn from his vast experience in the world.

Fatih is the best mentor I have ever had. He has transformed my sexuality and masculinity. God bless you, my brother. May you have a blessed and joyful life. You deserve it."

Hello, I'm Fatih.

Sex and sexuality have been my primary interest in my whole life. I would read whatever I could find about sexuality since I was a young teenager.

I had a BA in Sociology, with a graduation thesis on gender roles, which offers a feminine approach to feminism. When I was living in Japan in 2003 a series of events lead me to a spiritual “awakening”. I started doing meditation retreats, visiting Yoga Gurus in India, and Sufi Masters in Turkey.

In 2007 I discovered an authentic school that brings together sexuality and spirituality in a very coherent way. My life took a sharp turn and since then and I have been practicing Taoist techniques and tantric yoga to optimize my sex life.

In 2014 I simultaneously entered the world of plant medicine and started discovering the therapeutic aspects of Tantra. This gave me a new psychological approach to sexuality, which was radically different from the earlier Tantra training I had before. My Tantric approach is a synthesis of powerful Kundalini Yoga techniques, combined with active meditation and catharsis as tools of self-transformation.

My quest for self-discovery led me to meditation retreats, deep inner work retreats, vision quests, and ceremonies in countries like Japan, Thailand, India, Greece, Italy, and Chile.

My work consists of helping men lasting longer in bed while opening up to the possibilities of love and spiritual growth, understanding, and working with their energy systems.

I am also working with male archetypes and the concepts of initiation and rites of passage, for helping men reclaim the masculine identity.